Anybody here marry a girl that you don’t like so you can get bto to move out because you don’t like to stay with your parents?
I almost did that in 2017.
I met this girl from speedating event. After going out a few times, i ask her to be gf. She say ok. But she don’t want to have sex until marry, claiming that she come from a conservative family.
When i go watch wonder woman movie with her, she is laughing. After the movie, i ask her whats so funny. She say she is not laughing but she is crying. She saw wonder woman beat the germany solider. The solider must feel very painful so she cry for him.
I find her super weird
I feel that its very suspicious when your gf say no sex until marry, so i just stop contacting her and stop going out with her (never officially tell her that i want to break up).
1 month later i saw her attending the same speedating event as me. When i rotate to her table, she say to me – i am emotionally connected to you. You can tell me what type of girl you like i can change.
I don’t even bother to ask her wtf does she mean by emotionally connected to me. I also don’t bother to ask her why if we are in a relationship she still join speedating event to know guys.
I just tell her we can just be friends. She say ok.
A few years later in 2022, i just ask her to meetup as i was bored. As expected, she say she met a few guys from speedating events but nothing come out of it.
The good thing about her is she is not materialist. Sometimes when we go out, she will buy food and drinks for me.
I did thought of asking her to marry so we can buy hdb so i can move out don’t need stay with my mum. Even if got no sex after marriage i also don’t mind.
Until now i still wonder if i marry her and stay with her, will it be better than staying with my mum.