Stalked by a middle aged man at 8pm. So a little bit of context here. Me (30M), and my 2 nephews (16 and 11) just had lunch at 1pm and we were heading back to our condo.
There we were crossing past the car park entrance, and as most place in singapore there is a zebra crossing there.
This car was coming out of the car park and did not stop at all for the 3 of us while we were in the midst of crossing.
I then proceeded to ask the driver “do u not see the zebra crossing and I’m with kids”. He then shouts and says “ do you not see the car? You all can —- off la cb” and all the other languages and drives off.
Later that same day we decided to head out for dinner at 7.30pm. It was when I realised someone was following the three of us. I tested it out by pretending to stop to check my phone and he stopped as well. My nephews noticed it too.
We stopped 4 times and all 4 times he stopped. Whenever I made eye contact he would pretend to look at his phone. Of course my gut feeling tells me something is off so I call the cops.
The cops tell me to walk into the mrt station towards the main ticket counter and wait there. This was so that if he follows, the camera would catch him. And to my surprise he actually did follow us and lingered around the area. I must say, sg cops are quick to arrive at the scene. They arrived in less than 7 mins.
The cops came to us and we told him who that is. So the cops then proceeded to talk to him separately and got his identification. After talking to him, he walked off towards my direction, made some eye contact and left. The cops then proceeded to us and spoke to us.
Cops told us he denied it and was mad that I called the cops on him. They also told me he stays in the same condo as me. I knew it was the same guy that cursed at me earlier that day at the condo driveway. That’s when I got really scared. So the cops told me if he ever gets caught stalking or etc he will be in trouble and for us to to stay safe for now.
I can understand, cops won’t arrest without evidence. What should I do? I’m scared shitless here. Never been stalked before and that he lived at the same condo 🙁 should I have not confronted him for the zebra crossing issue?