How long is long enough the first time with a partner?
Context
So I (36m) am in an open relationship. This is all still a little new to me. I have been talking to a nice woman (40f) who lives in the area and I’m hoping to get together/hookup in the next month or two.
So we were talking about things and she warned me that she is someone that ‘shoots water’. I think she was afraid I’d be turned off.
But, I’m actually very excited. I’ve always wanted to experience being ‘shot water’ on. She said it’s “slippery s-”.
So being that I’m excited, I’m afraid I’ll finish too early. I’ll do all I can to focus on her pleasure. But I’m still nervous I’ll blow it. I can definitely go more than one round, and want to.
So I have this question for women. How long would you like a man to last the first time when you all are doing it together?
Do you forgive a man if he finishes too early as long as he makes you shiok as well?
Here are what netizens think
- Stop worrying about your D because it doesn’t matter. S- should not end when you finish or your dick goes soft. You need to keep pleasing her with your fingers, mouth and toys.
Also, you should be making her finish before you get to put your D inside her. So this idea of worrying about finishing before she shoots water should not be something you worry about because your fingers, mouth and toys won’t ever go soft.
So make her shoot water with all the other options before you put your D inside her. Then F her until you finish.
Then use your fingers on her again until your hand is in pain and needs a break then switch to be your other hand. Keep doing this until she says she needs a break from finishing so much.
Then when she’s ready again make her finish some more. Just because your D can’t last for 10 hours it doesn’t mean you can’t spend 10 hours making her finish.
Don’t worry about your D cause after you make her finish with all the other options she will be wanting to play with your D as a way to give her ‘cat’ a break.
Plus you could always wear a strap on to keep f-ing her.