A man shared his story about him and his ex-girlfriend who treated him as a spare tyre after she broke up with her ex-boyfriend.
In his post, he mentioned that she used to text him a lot whenever she was having issues with her boyfriend. She will stop contacting him when she is back in a good term with her boyfriend.
When She broke up with her boyfriend, she then asks the man to be with her within 1 week after her breakup. However, the two broke up shortly after the man realised that he doesn’t really love her.
He then seeks advice from social media if it is okay for him befriend with her girlfriend after their breakup.
” I liked a girl when I was doing undergraduate. she is 3 years younger than me. We both are from a different country. She had a boyfriend that time. So I didn’t reach her. After I graduated from uni she sends a friend request to me. I knew she was having some issues with her boyfriend. So I acted like a nice guy and I didn’t express my like. (usually, I take some time to express my desire) But I know she liked me. After talking(just friendly) for 4 months in vacation time she reduced talking to me. Coz she mingled with her boyfriend again. I got annoyed by her act and told her that I liked her after 5 months. (don’t know why I said that)
After 1 year from that incident, she broke up with that guy and immediately asked me within 1 week. Since I liked her I dragged that topic for a while and said okay for her. We were in a distanced relationship for 6 months. But now I feel bit pressure of having her in my life. (Don’t really love her).
So I decided to stop our relationship. But she wants to be my friend. Is it okay to be a good friend to her? Coz the intimate things happens in the last 6 months can become an issue in future between us.
Key Points
– She used me when she was lonely at the beginning and went back behind him again
– She approached me within 1 week after ending her 4-year relationship
– Whatever she did to me I was there as a good friend at the beginning
– Now I don’t want to continue this relationship. But we did some intimate stuff. (don’t make fun)
Is it okay to be friends after doing all those stuff???”
