My friends had always called me a player. I went through relationships like socks, never really taking them seriously. That was until I met my new girlfriend.
We met at a party and it was love at first sight. We talked all night and she seemed to really get me. She was everything I had ever wanted in a woman.
The relationship progressed really quickly and before I knew it, we were going to the next level. It was the first time I had ever truly been feeling it with someone and I was sure that I had found the one.
But then, something happened. As we were heading into the bed room, I noticed that her grapes were dangling like tube lights. I had never seen anything like it before and it freaked me out.
I immediately stopped and just stared at her in disbelief. She seemed embarrassed and tried to cover herself up but I couldn’t look away. I just felt disgusted and embarrassed.
I couldn’t believe that I had allowed myself to get so close to someone who had such an odd physical feature. I felt betrayed and like I had been tricked into doing it with someone who was not who I thought she was.
I couldn’t take it anymore and I quickly got dressed and left. I didn’t even say goodbye. I just couldn’t bear to look at her.
I haven’t spoken to my ex-girlfriend since that night. I just couldn’t face her.
The memory of her dangling grapes still haunts me to this day and I can’t seem to get it out of my head.
It’s been a few months since we broke up and I’m still trying to process what happened. It’s been hard for me to trust anyone since then and I’m still not sure if I’ll ever be able to have a successful relationship.
I know that it was wrong of me to break up with her over something so silly as her nei nei dangling like tube lights. But at the time, it was all too much for me to handle. I just couldn’t handle the weirdness of it all.
Breaking up with my ex-girlfriend was probably the most difficult thing I have ever done. But I just knew that it was for the best. I’m still trying to move on, but I’m not sure if I’ll ever be able to completely forget about her dangling tubes.