I always prefer Thai women and I used to frequent Thai discos all the time. Sometimes I get lucky and land a few and get them back.
I never expected that I will fall in love and eventually get married with one. So after getting married, I had trouble helping her find a decent job in Singapore. I told her to work for Thai restaurants but she complained that the salary is too low and the hours were long.
I explained to her and told her beforehand that getting married meant she has to forgo her easy-money job at a disco.
She insisted that she could work in the disco part-time and swear that she will be faithful to me. So I told her I am going to work part-time at a duck joint as well. (I used to work in one when I was studying)
Of course, this triggered an argument and she burst into “flames”, knn really like volcano. She accused me of finding girls in a disco that’s why I want to go work at a host bar. I was like “WTF”, after calming her down I told her this is how I will feel if she went back to a disco and work.
She calm down and said she understand, I was glad she understand and she said agreed that for her to work in a disco will result in more arguments.
She said I am educated and had a choice working as a white collar and she did not have a choice. So I told her that she did have a choice to work in the F&B industry. I told her that it is not like we are in desperate need of money.
So the argument became a discussion and came to a conclusion…
There was only one solution
I told her that she can be a housewife and I will work twice as hard to bring more bread home. But she said that she will be bored if she is at home all the time.
I told her she will eventually be busy at home and she got confused. So a few months later she got pregnant and finally understand what I meant.
To all my siam diu brothers out there, you want SG girl or Thai girl or what girl. You have to have money lah. No difference one.