I’m a man in my early thirties, and I’m married to the love of my life. We’ve been married for four years, and it’s been a great ride so far. We have a healthy relationship, and we both try to make the most out of every moment we spend together.
However, recently, my wife has been making a demand that I just can’t keep up with—she wants me to give her three times a night. Now, I’m not averse to it and I’m certainly not unwilling to do it, but this demand is just too much for me.
I’ve tried to talk to her about it, but she’s adamant that it’s what she wants and she won’t budge on the matter. It’s gotten to the point where I’m exhausted, both physically and mentally, from the constant demands. I can’t keep up with the pace she’s set, and it’s starting to take its toll on our relationship.
It’s not just the physical exhaustion either. Every time I’m with her I feel like I’m being judged like she’s expecting me to be able to keep up with her and perform at a level that I just can’t reach. It’s a huge pressure and it’s causing me to feel anxious and overwhelmed.
I’ve tried to explain to her that this demand is too much for me, but she doesn’t seem to understand. She just keeps pushing me to do more and more, and it’s really starting to affect our relationship. I’m growing resentful of her demands, and I’m feeling like I’m not enough for her.
At this point, I’m at the end of my rope. I want to make my wife happy, but I can’t keep up with her demands. I’m exhausted, overwhelmed, and feeling like I’m not enough for her. I’m not sure how much longer I can take this before something has to give.