Husband blames me for his affair
My husband and I have been in rocky water for a week since I discovered lewd photos he had received from a co-worker of his.
We have two young daughters, so I haven’t left him yet but I am considering it. Yesterday he sat me down and we had a big conversation about it.
I told him how I felt betrayed and I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to forgive him. He told me the only reason he cheated was because i made him feel like he had no value.
He claims that my unwillingness to have intercourse with him, which is exaggerated and I had a kid 7 months ago.
The affair started when I was pregnant and he claims I was just to focused on my pregnancy and my other daughter that he felt neglected and naturally sought attention elsewhere.
I don’t want to get divorced. I want my kids to have a healthy family but I’m very hurt. He claims this is just a rocky path in our marriage but it seems like a death blow, I’m not sure