My friends always complain about their partner using their things or irritating them in many ways.
For me, I see things from a different perspective and I would always encourage my friends to do so as well.
So usually my day starts early in the morning. I would be at work at 6am while my wife only wakes up at 7am to prepare for work. I share an account on Spotify with my wife and I will start listening to it at 6am. Usually at around 7am my music would get cut off as my wife would wake up and tune into our account to prepare for her work while listening to her favourite songs.
Thereafter, she would leave the house and arrive at work at about 8.45am and I would get my music back. I have never told my wife that she is interrupting my music. She doesn’t know that I am listening to our Spotify account at work as well. I enjoy knowing that she has woken up and she has already reached her workplace when I get my music back. It is something simple but something that I look forward to everyday.
It is a bonus that she does not check her Spotify history to know when I am using it. So I use spotify history to look at the songs she had played to gauge her mood and try to cheer her up by getting something on the way back home on days that I think she feels down.
Some people would complain and quarrel with their partners for constantly interrupting their music. But to me I see it as a joy and it is a pattern in my life that I look forward to every day.
So to everyone out there who have such disagreements with your partner, do try to look it another way and take things postiviely, who knows you may enjoy the process when you look at things differently.