One of my wife’s best friends cheated on her fiancé last summer while they were all out at another friend’s bridal shower. This friend has cheated on her fiancé in the past a number of times and has no remorse about it.
She acts as if it didn’t even happen and posts all this fake stuff on social media about how dedicated she is to him. I’m friends with her fiancé and he’s a great guy, he definitely doesn’t deserve it. They’re supposed to get married late this summer.
Should I tell him what happened? My wife told me in confidence but I could tell him in a way that they wouldn’t know it was me. I know that sounds petty but I’ve been in the position he’s in and I would definitely want someone to tell me, especially if I was about to marry the person.
Thanks for any advice.
Here are what netizens think:
- Yes you should tell him what happened. If you were him, wouldn’t you want to know? You can save him a HUGE amount of pain by not going through with a sham marriage.
- Also, it may be worth noting that your wife is okay staying best friends with someone who actively cheats without remorse. This is definitely something to keep in mind. It may be somewhat nothing, but if it adds up with other behavior later it is something to think about.
- How did your wife talk about these incidents? in a shocked disapproving manner or just matter of factly? If its a very disapproving manner if you press on her conscience hard enough she might agree letting the guy know would be the right thing.