It’s tough to be a guy in SG.
Girl don’t want to date shorter guy = Pls respect her preference
Guy don’t want to date overweight girl = Eww, you should look at the inside, not the outside. You shallow sia
Girl want a guy who can lead and take charge = It’s her preference
Guy want a girl who will submit to him and let him lead = Creepy sia, why must she be submissive, you can’t handle an independent strong woman???
Girl sets boundaries in relationship = Yes! Boundaries are important!
Guy sets boundaries in relationship = Don’t be controlling can? You insecure ah? Be more confident.
Girl’s academic and workforce progress = Feels good to be working and earning an income!
Guy’s academic and workforce progress (after 2 years NS) = Cannot la, I want a guy who already have stable income. He at this age still in uni somemore… Oh wait what? Oh yeah almost forgot guys have NS. No wonder.
Girl wants to date an older and mature guy = Her preference
Guy wants to date a younger youthful girl = Creepy sia, you feel intimidated by girls your age ah?
the dating game has changed drastically from what it used to be. There are so many different conversations and topics that people are discussing about dating that it can be hard to keep up with them all. One of the topics that I often hear being discussed is the idea of “dating preferences”. This is when someone has a specific set of criteria that they look for in potential romantic partners. For example, someone might want to date someone who is tall, or someone who is a certain ethnicity, or someone who has a specific profession.
One of the most common preferences that I hear discussed is the preference to date someone of a certain height. For many women, there is a preference to date someone who is taller than they are. This preference has become so widely accepted that it has even been joked about in movies and television shows. However, for those of us who are shorter than the average height, this preference can be incredibly hurtful.
As someone who has experienced this type of discrimination firsthand, I can tell you that it’s not something to be taken lightly. It can be incredibly discouraging to hear that someone isn’t interested in you simply because of your physical attributes. It can make you feel like your worth is being judged by something as arbitrary as your height.
That being said, I understand why some women may have this preference. For some women, it may be that they feel more comfortable with someone larger than them. They may feel safer, or more protected. Or, it could be because they simply prefer the way someone looks when they are taller. Whatever the reason, it’s important to remember that it’s ultimately up to the individual to decide what they are looking for in a partner.
That’s why it’s important to respect a woman’s preference when it comes to height. While it may be tough to hear that someone doesn’t want to date you because of your height, it’s important to remember that it’s ultimately her decision. It’s not personal, and it’s not something that should be taken personally.
On the other hand, the same respect should be given to men when it comes to physical attributes. Just as a woman has the right to decide that she doesn’t want to date someone who is shorter than her, a man has the right to decide that he doesn’t want to date someone who is overweight. This is not to say that men are shallow or selfish for having this preference – it’s simply their individual preference.
That being said, I do think that it’s important to look at the bigger picture. While physical attributes may be one of the criteria that someone looks for in a potential partner, it shouldn’t be the only deciding factor. After all, physical attributes are only one part of who someone is. It’s important to look beyond the physical and get to know someone for who they truly are as a person.