I had been wanting to book a massage for the longest time, so I finally decided to take the plunge and make an appointment.
However, I was in for a surprise when I received the confirmation email and saw that my masseur was going to be a man.
Uncomfortable with another male touching him
I had assumed it would be a female, as I had not seen any other options when I booked the appointment. I was immediately filled with anxiety.
I had never been comfortable with the idea of a male giving me a massage, and I was worried that if it was not a female I would not be able to relax during the session.
I tried to push aside my doubts and opted to keep the appointment, telling myself that it was silly to be so concerned about something like this.
Unfortunately, I found it hard to relax when the massage began. I was constantly aware of the fact that it was a man giving me the massage, and I could not help but feel a little uncomfortable.
My body was tense and I was unable to enjoy the session as much as I would have liked to.
Got bought over by the male masseuse’ skills
I knew that I could not let my discomfort ruin the session, so I decided to try and focus on my breathing and focus on the massage itself. I tried to think of it as any other medical procedure, and I was able to slowly relax and enjoy the massage as it went on.
I began to appreciate the male masseur’s skill, and I was able to let go of my worries and just enjoy the session.
By the end of the session, I realized that my initial anxiety had been unfounded. I had been able to relax and enjoy the massage, despite the fact that it had been a man giving it to me.
I realized that it was silly to be so worried about something like this and that it was important to be open minded and not let my preconceived notions get in the way of a potentially enjoyable experience.
Overall, getting a massage from a male masseur was not as uncomfortable as I had feared it would be. Once I was able to relax and focus on the massage itself, I was able to enjoy the session and appreciate the skill of my masseur.