So fun fact the first (and only) time i’ve ever tried to have intercourse, i had an anxiety attack after i took my shirt off and after the other party calmed me down
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I left quite quickly and never spoke to them again (which i feel kinda guilty about but then again they never tried to contact me again and we were never in an established relationship)
Snd since then i have actively avoided any kind of intimacy despite my craving for physical connection and someone who cares about me.
Yea im really touch starved and want a relationship but also dont for obvious reasons….so yeah
Netizen’s comments
- May sound like odd advice, but why not find someone to help you get over it?
If you’re into any genders and you explain the situation (how you fear intimacy), I’m sure a friend could help you get over it.
I used to suffer from performance anxiety, I had a close friend agree to let us explore each other and after that I never felt awkward again in a bedroom.