A Facebook user has shared his story about how he had cheated on his girlfriend and he felt bad about it.
According to the user, he has been dating one of his female colleagues and even slept with her. He felt bad and ended the relationship with his colleague and told her girlfriend about it.
His girlfriend forgives him but things has not been the same as before. He mentioned that at some nights he will find her girlfriend crying herself to sleep. The man then advice other men out there not to be like him.
Full Story Here:
“I cheated.
After entering my new workplace for 6 months, I could hit it off really well with my colleague girl A and we started hanging out even after work. I was selfish, I wanted the best of both worlds, I didn’t tell her that I am currently attached. We started going on dates and I was cheating emotionally. I had to find ways to hide it from my current girlfriend. After 3 months when things are getting serious, I cheated physically. Day after day, my guilt is over-consuming me, it wasn’t fair for the both of them and I couldn’t bring myself to tell either one the truth. My long time girlfriend thought that I’m always busy at work so that I couldn’t meet her and she was very understanding, encouraging me along the way while in actual fact I was spending my day away at girl A’s house
Fast forward to last December when I couldn’t take the guilt anymore and decided to end things with Girl A, she found out about my current relationship and threatened to expose it to my girlfriend. I didn’t want my GF to find out from a third party so I told her myself.
She was completely broken. She went silent, she didn’t ask me why, she didn’t ask me what went wrong, she didn’t ask me anything. She just stared into space and sobbed silently. I promised her I will never do it again and seek forgiveness. I completely understand if she wishes to leave me but she forgave me and she said she will be better for me…. I felt like shit. It wasn’t even her…. the problem was me. She loved me with all her heart yet I took it for granted. She loved me so much that she blamed herself.
After this incident, we continued to live life together and explore new things but I knew things weren’t the same. There are nights when I find her crying herself to sleep… I have ruined her perception of love and eroded the trust she has for me…..
Guys out there, before you succumb to the temptation of cheating please think twice. Don’t end up like me making a bad decision and destroying your GF’s life.
