MAN FOUND OUT WIFE CHEATED, THEN THEY PIAK PIAK ANGRILY & NOW 2ND CHILD ON THE WAY

I (29M) found out my wife (29F) cheated on me, and don’t know how to navigate a divorce with young kids.

So back in May, I (M29) found out my wife(F29) had been cheating on me with my neighbor/best friend🙃

we have been together a total of 15 years, and after fighting all weekend, I decided I wanted to see if there was anyway to salvage the relationship(I know most people think that’s stupid/weak but oh well that’s what I wanted to do at the time. Hard to let 15 years go).

The following week we are trying to work on things, and end up having “makeup” s-x…..and now we have another child on the way(we already have a two year old).

As the months have gone on, I’m not really making any progress with the situation, and am starting to feel a divorce is imminent on my end.

I guess I’m seeking advice from people out there who have navigated a divorce with young children. Even if we split, we are level headed people, I do feel she is genuinely remorseful, but I don’t forgive her.

We have talked about divorce, and both agree we want equal custody, no one is trying to keep the kids from one another.

Similar salaries so neither side will be looking for child support. Just wanna hear from people who have been through it. Is it as bad as it seems its going to be? Trying to raise two kids under three in seperate households?

Disclaimer: there were a lot of stupid decisions on both sides, from the cheating to start, to us now having a kid on the way and likely getting divorced. Not looking for opinions in what happened, looking for advice on the future.

Netizens’ comments

1. You should DNA test all your kids but especially this new one.
2. If she’ll cheat on you with your best friend then she will sleep with anyone but never admit it. Do a DNA test, don’t be a fool. You can divorce and it still be okay on the kids, just don’t put one another down, leave personal feelings out of it. It doesn’t have to get ugly, the only way to turn it ugly is by yours or her actions due to ego. You never ever stay because of kids. Also, DNA test all the kids. She can’t be trusted and she proved that.
3. Just be sure to get a paternity test with the newborn before making any decisions about custody or getting attached.