Frankly speaking, I am afraid to get into relationship. Because everywhere I go, I meet this expectation of a “traditional man” but the females control everything/can do anything they want without labels
Example 1: My dad do all the household chores and work. My mom earns more than him by a thousand more per month and she complains he useless man. Like, come on?? He is doing both work and home leh. And whenever they argue, my mom will get physically abusive sometimes + constantly verbal insults.
Example 2: My dates. I went on dates with quite a few females but never settled for a relationship. In a nutshell, 80% of the girls are quite self-entitled and expect men to follow/give in/pay for them. 10% are strong independent young women and the other 10% are just DTF that I avoid. The 80% makes me want cry and vomit blood liao
Example 3: Friends’ relationship. They are always so scared of their girlfriend and let the girls carry their balls sia. Every decision, even hanging out with friends also need to ask a girlfriend. The heck sia.
Example 4: Female friends. I know a lot of girls. But every time I argue with them, when I wrong I will admit. But they wrong hor, IMPOSSIBRUH for them to apologize sia. If not they will say “Sorry BUT-” and then the singing comes.
Accepting this is a bit of a fact, I am in a dilemma whether to be one of those who eventually settle down and be like my poor dad.
Or just be monk and chant Amitabha daily. Guys, got any advice or not?