Partner with wild undiagnosed anger issues took back my engagement ring but im scared ill be painted as the bad guy if I leave
Hello, much like the title says my (28F) partner (29M) of 5 years took back my engagement ring yesterday in what I would describe as a daily mood swing.
This morning before he went to work he was behaving weirdly and tried to say goodbye before he left. I just ignored him.
His mother told me I need to be supportive of him (he had a major injury a few months back) but I feel like his behavior as of late teeters on possibly mistreatment.
Ive tried to leave in the past and he’s made it almost impossible
I’m worried if I leave, ill be painted as a monster over it because of his injury and the fact our wedding is 2 months away.
I feel like I’ve hit my limit and its probably time to leave, but I dont know how as our lives are so intermingled.
Any advice appreciated
Netizens’ comments
DO NOT GET MARRIED IF YOU ARE UNSURE.
He took the ring back, the wedding is off. Send out that announcement. Put the blame where it lies..
If you still want to marry him make him repropose and do not say yes until he has dealt with his issues.
2 months is far to soon for him to work on it.
I would start untangling your lives.