My best friend has been struggling financially for the past few years. His business ventures have all failed, leaving him with very little money.
Despite this, he still wants to have a lavish wedding, because his ego is more important than the reality of his financial situation.
Always thinks that he needs to show people he is doing well
I’m not sure why it’s so important to him. He’s already in a committed relationship, and they both love each other very much.
But it’s almost like he feels like he has something to prove. He wants to show the world that he’s still successful, even though his business ventures have failed.
I’ve tried to talk him out of it, but he refuses to listen. He says that he’s going to make it work, no matter what it takes.
He’s already started to make plans for the wedding, and he’s not even thinking about how he’s going to pay for it.
The worse is that his to be wife does not know of his situation as he is always cooking up excuses to explain why his business has failed and still acts like he has a lot of money in front of her.
Worry for him that this will all be exposed in future which will affect his relationship
I’m worried that he’s going to end up in debt, because he’s not taking the time to think about the financial implications of what he’s doing. He’s too busy focusing on the details of the wedding, and he’s not considering the long-term consequences.
I’ve offered to help him out financially, but he’s too proud to accept it. He feels like he needs to prove himself, and he’s not willing to let anyone else do it for him.
I understand why he feels this way, but I’m also concerned about his future. If he can’t manage his finances properly now, how is he going to be able to do it when he’s married?
His wife is going to have to carry the financial burden, and it’s not fair to her.
I’m scared that his ego is going to be the downfall of his relationship. He’s not considering the effects of his actions, and he’s not taking the time to think about the future.
He’s too focused on the present, and he’s not taking into account how his decisions will affect him and his family in the long run.
I’m trying to be supportive, but it’s hard to watch him make decisions that could potentially ruin his future. I just hope that he comes to his senses soon, and realizes that his ego is not more important than the reality of his financial situation.
I want him to be happy, but I also want him to be smart and take care of his finances.