Unpopular opinion – I don’t look forward to the weekends
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30’s male with a wife and kid. Both of us work in a gahmen job. I find weekends very stressful. I mean, I love my wife and kid. Weekends can wake up a bit later.
But weekends means chores, cooking etc. Weekends means family outing, money flying Weekends means spending time with SO who may or may not be in a good mood. Nowhere to run if bad mood.
Weekdays on the other hand, thru the morning rush. Go to work, people smile, laugh. Camaraderie is there. Finish work, come back too tired to fight/argue/cari pasal. Routine is calming.
Anyone else feel this way?
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Netizens’ comments
- Working in private sector is very stressful so I look forward to weekends to destress by washing cars, sweeping and mopping floors, going to hardware shop to buy supplies to do minor repairs, taking family out for meals and shopping, meeting with parents or parents in law.
- Sounds like the root cause of you not liking the weekends is your wife. Try to work that out.
- I love weekends because I actually have time to do chores. I can actually cook during the weekends. I cant do that during weekdays because I simply doesn’t have the time.
I think you just hate household responsibilities - Careful though, because the way u think now is nearing the type of husbands that “abandoned” their family and no longer took interest in them because they feel they lost the joy of being in that family anymore, and they would eventually try to find a “new” thing outside of it.
- easy fix! just find a job you hate.. then you’ll love the weekends. 😀
jokes aside. sounds like u need to see a therapist to talk about your problems. sounds like you’re harbouring resentment and anger.