I know I’m going to sound shallow and get roasted but I’m going to say it anyway.
Secretly I hate lazy and fat people. If you’re lazy and not fat I won’t find it as annoying. But I really cannot stand fat people. Those who are so fat that they need a motorized wheelchair to move around. I also hate fat youngsters. You got no excuse to eat till your face swell to double the size and look more pregnant than a woman.
I’m in my 30s and I find it ridiculous that some friends my age cannot control their weight. Please don’t give the excuse about body type or medical when you have no health issues. I have friends who managed to look the same or even start to take care of themselves after having kids. So I don’t believe its acceptable to look like a balloon after NS. Diet and exercise plays a huge part for sure. Not caring about these 2 elements just shows that you’re lazy.
I have a cousin who was fit during his teenage years. NS improved his shape but he got fatter and fatter after that. Always eat junk food and smoke and drink. I was so shocked to see him recently as he haven’t been updating his fb posts for years. He has ballooned to triple his size. His fiance is normal built I wonder how does he not crush her to death when they have sex or if he can even make it stand? His face is so swollen I don’t even know where to look when I talk to him. He’s literally panting and breathing very hard even while he’s seated. Not like he’s on a treadmill. And he’s not even half way through his 20s.
I wouldn’t be able to not do anything about it if I looked like him.
Waiting for fat people to slam me. But I’m stating a fact. If you let yourself get to such a stage and do nothing about it, be prepared to hear remarks from people.