My appearance is not suitable for dating… I’ve received a lot of rejections… in my lifetime.
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I recently joined a dating app so called kind of high-end dating apps…
It had member requirements like good career, or NUS graduates, people with high income, or women with good looks, etc. Anyway, I joined with my diploma, but it’s kind of frustrating because I see girls contacting me just based on my accomplishment. I’m afraid to meet them for same reason too.
I want to love them regardless of what I’ve achieved, but where can I find someone like that? I don’t have much confidence. It is too late?
Here are what netizens think:
- It takes more than appearance to attract a woman. And lack of a handsome face can be offset by career accomplishments, fitness and your behavior. With good career accomplishments, you set the stage right for someone to give you a chance. With fitness, you make her feel attracted to you to continue the date and relationship. With good behavior, you make her feel comfortable and she will find you the package to go for. Keep that up and you got yourself a stable relationship to consider if you should marry her. By then you will have a different set of problems.
- Please don’t depend on dating apps. They actually stunt a person’s interpersonal and communication skills. Everything is filtered to the point where you can’t tell how much you see online about the other person, is the truth. Just find more real world activities to do and then meet people organically.
- You need to work on your self esteem before you try to welcome someone in your life.
- I always believe there will be someone out there ready for you, it is a matter of time. What you need to do now is to live well. Do the things that make you happy, give the sense of achievement to build up your own belief. When you live well, you will generate positivity, it will naturally attract the person with the same frequency.