I kicked a guy out of my apartment in the middle of hooking up, and you can too.
I was talking to this guy I matched on bumble for a week and I thought we had great chemistry, he told me absolutely alllll the nice things a woman wants to hear.
And so I decided to invite him over, we started making out. I went down on him and he wouldn’t go down on me which i didn’t understand because he told me he goes down on women.
Well, turns out he doesn’t. In his exact same words ” If I told you I don’t go down on women, you wouldn’t have any interest in sleeping with me” to which I replied, “yeah I won’t!”
If he was honest about it that would have been okay, but I felt manipulated, so i kicked him out.
This guy lied to get laid. I didn’t kick him out just because he didn’t go down on me.
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- I have done this! I was sleeping with someone who tried not once, not twice, but THREE TIMES over the evening to f me in my backside after I had already refused and asked him not to go there.
I was so angry. it took me a good day or two to really feel all the anger. but at the time at least I had the whereabouts to stop him completely and ask him to leave. - I had a tinder date come over to my apartment, I blew him for like 20 minutes, and then when I told him I wasn’t ready and I wanted him to go down on me, he was like “oh no I don’t do that.”
That should have been an immediate NOPE for me, but somehow we kept going, until I told him to put on a condom (because duh, random dude from the internet??) and he refused.
He tried to hang out in my bed just chatting to me after that, but I promptly kicked him out