Boyfriend told another girl “we aren’t dating, we just hang out a lot”
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for one year. He’s met my family, I went to his family’s wedding and know his family as well.
I sleep over his house all the time and we go to concerts, go to eat, and do other activities together. I’m 26 and he is 38.
We met at work. We both work at a restaurant on the weekend. I kind of chased after him after me and someone else broke up at work. Originally he liked Ashley.
Ashley went away for a few years and now has returned. Ashley asked him about me and he said “she’s not my girlfriend, we just hang out a lot and occasionally go out to eat”.
Someone else told me he was flirting with this girl who liked him behind my back. He told me he’s not even attracted to that girl, he could of dated her before but he’s not attracted to her.
What do you guys think?
Netizes’ comments
- He is 38 chasing after a (probably) 20-year-old. Cut your losses and run. He is not worth it.
- I’m pretty sure your boyfriend is doing that to get Ashley to sleep with him (since if she knows you are his girlfriend, she might not want you).
It sounds a lot like he is lying when he tells you he is not attracted to her anymore. I think he still is, and that now that she is back from college and a bit older he definitely still wants to sleep with her.
You deserve better than this. If he had any respect for you and your relationship he wouldn’t be doing/saying any of that