A man has sought advise from netizens if his behaviour was considered as cheating after he lied to her wife to meet another woman outside.
According to him, he had recently met a lady outside who he felt connected with. He then mentioned that he had lied to her wife about having to do overtime to meet the lady. However, he was unclear if his actions were considered cheating as there were no physical contact involved.
In his post:
“I wonder if by the strict definition of cheating on your wife means you must sleep with the other woman? If no sex involved does still count as cheating?
I’m not talking too much to my wife nowadays, we have no many common topics to talk about after 6 years, or when we talk somehow it gets worse and we end up almost arguing, or really arguing..the mood becomes very bad
So recently I met a lady M. She’s in same profession as me, elegant, soft spoken, and we click very well. We can chat and chat forever. I meet her for lunch almost everyday, and sometimes dinner. After dinner we will take a stroll and just chat and chat. So many things to talk about with her. She knows I’m married but she’s single. I ask how come such a suitable lady still no men in her life? She said all the men she meet just wants sex, not serious towards her. I’m the first guy she met in many years who she can connect with…
Wow i hear this my heart melt. Makes me so comfortable. Yes I lie to my wife that I need to do overtime so that to go out with her. But is this considered cheating? No I think? We never touch each other. Just walk and chat like old friends. I know we have feelings for each other, but we dont have physical contact. I dont want to lose her..“
Source: Storience.co