I’m okay with using women and leading them on
(27M) All throughout my formative years I never had much luck with the ladies. I wasn’t ugly but I was awkward. Still I tried my damnest without success.
There’s only so much rejection one man can take before he becomes bitter and resentful. I was the last in my friendship group to lose my virginity and that was when I was 21.
Being around all my active-in-hook ups friends caused me great insecurity in school and university.
Fast-forward a few years, I’m not exactly rich but I have my life together at least. I have a great job and I’m in much better physical shape than before. Needless to say, this has helped considerably with my dating life.
Rather than settling down though, I’m out to make up for all those years I lost. Many of my partners are cool with casual hookups but others I’ve had to deceive a bit.
In the last couple of years I’ve probably led on a dozen women under the false pretences of a relationship.
I know this is immoral but I just think they had their fun, now I’m having mine. They’re probably used to it by now anyway.
- Sounds like you have a hate problem with women dawg. You need to figure that out otherwise it’s gonna haunt you for the rest of your life
- There’s a decent chance if you dont resolve that it will come back to bite you in the ass when you find someone you do like OR you’ll do it for long enough and wake up one day and everyone else is paired off. Time goes quicker than you realize and can appreciate.
- So you’re hurting and punishing women who never hurt you, just for fun?