I love telling people the truth. If they got hurt from it, it’s just bonus for me.
Truth is truth. Facts are facts. Both of them are objective. Feelings are not facts. It can be valid, but it won’t change the truth. The more hurtful people feel from the truth, the more I enjoy telling it.
I first discovered this feeling from about a decade ago. My friend was really into this one korean actor, and one day this Korean actor got married and my friend got so sad she cried. Then I proceed to say that it’s not like she has any chance with him. He doesn’t even know she existed. Plus, even if he does, what does she have at all to get him? Nothing.
When I told her that, she got so mad and screamed at me saying things like “No he’s my husband how dare you say I’m nothing” and bla bla bla. At that moment, I feel pure happiness from her reaction to the truth. She’s denying the obvious objective truth. So I keep on telling to the point she left screaming.
Since then, I enjoy doing that. I became extremely honest to everyone. Be it about a problem, about themselves, about their attitude, etc. I long as its the truth, I’ll say it. If they accept it, they’ll learn. If they deny and get angry from it, I’ll enjoy that moment. Huge win win for me.
And nothing can make me stop. I’ve received so much truth about myself from others as so called “payback”. Like people say I’m arrogant, I’m heartless, I’m so full of myself, and of course, a sadist. They think it’s gonna hurt me saying all that hahahahahaha. I wasn’t even mad or hurt like duh it is true. I am all of those things hahahahhaha. Plus it’s fair, go ahead and do the same to me.
With this ability, I managed to filter who’s real and who’s fake. Those who left are extremely fake. Those who stayed, they told me that although my words hurt when I told them the truth about themselves, it shows that I’m real and just wants the best for them. It’s because of me they learn and grow from it. And that too, makes me happy.
Most people just love to deny the truth. I’m just saying, if I say the Sun is hot, you can deny it, you can be angry at me about it, you can feel sad, you can cry, and you can go insane all you want.
Regardless of what you feel or what you do, the Sun will continue to be hot. And that’s a fact you can’t change
Stop living in your delusional world. Wake the f up