Probably my biggest screw up in my life till this date ever, which will haunt me for all the years to come.
Just feels so surreal, not necessarily panicking tho. I’m 23M and my female friend, whom I’ve known for the most part of my life is currently 22.
We had a happy childhood together
I still remember us playing every day as little kids to hanging out almost everyday as teenagers, we often went on vacation together either with my or her parents.
She was sort of like the sister I never had, and people now hearing that I got her pregnant feels almost like it’s illegal.
Got her pregnant after we were drunk
A few months ago, I was at her apartment both of us super drunk, and yeah it somehow just happened. It was good, so I guess in the following weeks it accidentally happened quite often.
We did use a ‘helmet’ every time as she isn’t on birth control. How in the world did she still get pregnant.
I know that there are a few, who even get pregnant even when all the precautions were taken, but never thought it would happen to us.
She took 5 pregnancy tests and 1 week later went to the gynecologist, who confirmed her pregnancy. We both can’t bring it on ourselves to abort the baby, so we’re keeping it, we’re financially stable so I don’t think it would be a problem.
Telling our parents about it and hopefully they don’t react badly
We’re planning on telling our parents this evening and it is so awkward since they’ve seen me grow up with her.
We just hope that there will not be any big adverse reactions.
The only one who’s been shipping us since day one, was her grandma lol.
Still can’t believe I’ll have to buck up on whatever I need to do to provide for her and our kid.
I can jolly well forget about having any fun in my life anymore.