Nephew tio scammed by young Vietnamese lady and now I have some concern
I want to ask has anyone caught their partners chatting up or following those Vietnamese girls (mostly sleazy looking profiles showing them in actual photos of them clad minimally, like just a bra and a panty) on Tik Tok .. ?
We are an old local couple but recently I found all these sleazy Viet women sending connection requests to my partner’s account.. and I know men will mostly gladly accept them, which is what worries me the most.
I remember having a younger married nephew gotten scammed by a young Vietnamese woman, and lost almost 100K in savings. The wife also left him cause he spent time overnight with the Vietnamese woman, whom he knew also slept with several other men aside from him (in the same period when they were together..)
So, back to my question… Should I remind my partner to be more careful on Tik Tok? To not make the same mistake as my nephew? (My nephew life was totally messed up by this Viet lady, so pitiful as he now has to constantly borrow money from me to survive tough time after the lady fled back to Vietnam.. haiz, my nephew still quite young in his 20s only also tio scammed, which I really don’t understand).
So now I am worried about those women on Tik Tok. Is there any filter I can apply to keep my partner from those minimally clad Vietnamese women accounts on Tik Tok?
If anything happen, how can old couple like us handle it…? I feel very worried but my partner doesn’t seem to take any precautions and still happily accept their friend or follower requests.
I am seriously so worried……Can someone please help? Can Tik Tok come up with some filter options? Else I guess will have to delete my partner Tik Tok’s account and then talk to him about the potential problems which he might not be aware of..
Need good advice. Don’t want my partner to be scammed.
Here are what netizens think:
- Ask your partner find better hobbies to fill up his free time so he won’t spend his time scrolling social media and risk getting scammed. Otherwise you just “ah accept friend request la, talk to them la, kena scam already don’t ask me for money, I got no money to give you.”
- It’s useless doing anything about man and his ego. Young man would see other people got scammed and say I younger and more intelligent, will not get scam. Old man will say they old and wise enough to not get scam. They could be true. But when blood retreat from their head and rushes to the other head, they are lost.
- Many even fall for the WhatsApp messages “Hey, I haven’t seen you in a long time since you last left Hongkong” simply because the texter used a Dua Dua Liap catfishing profile pict. One ‘victim’ said he thought he really knew her. BS. He only thought he may have a chance to meet her and touch the Dua Dua liap.