What is ahead? It’s so boring
I and my wife are in our late 30s. We each earn around $20k/monthly, not including year end bonus (average 30-40% of our annual base). Somehow I feel lost.
Wealth – We are financially smart. We are not into luxury stuff or flashy cars. We own 2 landed houses in Singapore. The housing loan is only about 40% of the asset prices. It’s all from our hard earned money, we started and made everything from zero. No lottery winning whatsoever. We are lucky as the houses have appreciated alot after COVID. The mortgage is only around 10% of our monthly income as one house is paid by itself using rental income.
Hobbies – Every year we spend at least 1.5 month traveling with kids. We enjoy and spend alot on good experiences, good hotels and good food during our trips. It is still well within our budget around 10% of our total annual income.
Career and Health – All is excellent. Great work life balance (knock off at 5pm) and a lot of freedom. Physical and mental health is good (touch wood).
Marriage – No marriage is perfect but we understand and accept each other well. Good S life, my wife gets climaxes at least once everytime we have it.
Despite having all the great things in life, I still feel there is something not right. I probably lose my ambition to strive hard. My career is probably too easy, it’s definitely difficult for others but I manage it so well. I have tried moving out of my comfort zones many times but always get things done so well and feel everything mediocre again. My work day is just simply to wait for the weekends to come.
I really do not know what keep me awake in the next 10 years. Should I just close one eye and continue like this? I really feel bored, extremely bored. It is a bit early for me to give up doing something great in life? Any advices to refresh my mind? Is it worth it to jump into something big?