My boyfriend 23m is mad I 21f won’t pay for him to go away with his friends
For context I come from a quite wealthy family I travel often around 3-6 times a year depending on the length of the trips for which I pay for myself as I have a good job, but my boyfriend comes from an average income family so he can’t afford to do that.
When we go away together I will pay all expenses except for his food and anything unnecessary he chooses to buy.
Im currently away on a holiday with my family and my boyfriend called me last night telling me all about a holiday him and his friends had planned.
he kept mentioning the cost but I was assuming he was just happy he was able to pay for himself but no, when it got to the end of the call he asked “so can you transfer me over the amount” I was confused at the time.
I asked him what he meant by that and his response was “ well you’re paying no? You know I can’t afford to myself”
we then got into a huge argument which is still currently happening but I’m still refusing. I feel as though he sees me as kind of his bank account where I should pay for everything.
If that’s the case I want to/will end the relationship but In another way I feel as though it’s my fault for him being that way for me always paying for him to go with me.
Edit: He’s now the ex.