What should I look forward to in life?
For context, (M) 30, presently pursuing a master, owns a car and an apartment. Looks-wise, I would rank myself a 6/10 though some of my friends commented a 7 or 8/10 but I think they are just being nice.
Am a spontaneous, adventurous person who enjoys doing some individual sports to kill time. Cons: Friends said I have an idgaf attitude but it is also my charm. lol such irony statement.
I feel that I have attained the Singaporean dream at such young age myself that idk what to look forward or work for in life anymore. I am very contented being by myself and perfectly ok with having me time as I can find things to keep myself occupied. Friends often jio me out and I love spending time with them as well. Not sure why I haven’t met anyone that I feel can value add to my life.
What are the things that keep you all going forward? What are the things that motivate you in your day-to-day life? What keeps your spirits up? Advice pls?
Here are what netizens think:
- Go spread your seeds? We need more of your spawns
- Travel and you’ll meet more amazing people out there. Don’t limit yourself to Singaporean girls cos most may not actually need a man. They may want one, but they most certainly not need one unless they are aspiring
- From the way u describe it’s hard to believe u haven’t met anyone, perhaps u might want to look at yourself if you are repelling others based on your traits.
- The Singaporean dream matters not, yours matter. Our time is finite and often shorter than what we believe or hope it to be. If you can look within and find the driving force behind your desires, you may start to find the answers to what you are looking for.
- Plan what kind of future you want and try to work backwards from there. Keep yourself healthy. Stay away from abusive people. And substances. Don’t get too soft hearted. Throw the gauntlet down when you need to. And then YOLO the fk out of what you have. Whether love comes by or not, it then becomes an option; the icing on the cake. Too many marriages crumbling apart these days. I believe the aim of our existence is to lead a reasonably happy life. And “happy” is subjective.