Best advice for someone who is lost in a r/s.
I have been together with this guy for like 2 years. We fight a lot, not sure if it’s me or him, or we are just incompatible. He did something terribly wrong in his past, and I couldn’t look pass it, which indirectly cause me to be emotional in a lot of stuffs. Another thing is he makes terrible decisions, especially financially and it has been stressing me out regardless it isn’t my money, but i just saw a bleak future in terms of financially with him at the moment.
He pampers me a lot but in the meantime spending a lot of me which I have told him multiple times i didn’t want him to do so if he didn’t have the cash but I guess he didn’t listened and now we fights sometimes because of this issue as well.
The thought of breaking up keeps surfacing. Not because he’s broke or whatever but because I felt that I am the reason for his downfall. Is breaking up at this moment a great choice? Need helps.
Here are what netizens think:
- Sounds like you’re riding in a luxury comfortable car. Real leather, plushy seats, in-car champagne. But that car is speeding down the highway at 200km/hr. It’s also on fire. Get out before you’re dead.
- If you cannot handle his past, it’s better that both parties part ways. If his current behaviour doesn’t change, it may become worse after marriage which may lead to the downfall of your marriage.
- You are not the reason for his downfall. But if you stay in this relationship that doesn’t make you happy, then you and only you would be the reason for your own downfall. Leave now before you feel too stuck to leave later.