This is bothering me for a while. A while ago I was doing internship in a bank, there I met a NUS senior of my age. She’s 23 just like me, I kinda have a crush on her. The thing is she has a bf who works in the same bank and she is getting married this year. The BF is 36 years old and is a senior banker. They both been dating for 2 years, when she did the same internship.
I found out later that this phenomenon is common in the bank, with many dudes around 10-15 years older than their spouse. Another intern(21) also dated one dude 9 years older because he has a car, condo and a 100k salary package.
At this rate all the good ones are getting hunted by all these rich old man. To the girls, Isn’t it really disgusting to date someone almost 1.5 times older than you?
Recently I shared this thought with a friend, and she told me that if she was could find a 100k per annum dude with a car and condo, she’d marry him no matter how bad he is. Worst come to worst she could just divorce and ask for alimony.
What is this world coming to? Maybe I should go for dudes instead.
Here are what netizens think:
- Orrrrrrr you can find women that earn 100k and is 1.5 times older than you with car and condo. Learn, adapt and survive bro.
- Your very mindset is why they don’t go for guys around their age. Think about it logically, would you go for someone new in his career who gets emotional like this instead of thinking how to be a 100k earner or one a decade ahead who can provide in more ways than one?
- Sad reality of life, not many woman wants a man who’s a “work in progress”. Stay strong bro.
- Just wait another 10 years and you might become like them