I want to see my mother for Valentine’s Day, but my fiancé said “no”
Basically, my mom was supposed to get a cochlear implant surgery tomorrow and it was denied by insurance. I feel really bad.
I haven’t see her in three weeks and I wanted to just spend time with her (my fiancé took me to dinner on Saturday for our anniversary), he’s quite upset that I want to see her, I understand he’s upset but is it wrong off me to spend time with my mom? Or are his feelings more justified?
Edit: he is not a controlling person and a perfect fiancé other than this. She is mentally manipulative towards me and that could be why however that’s still my mother and I want to be there for her in sadness, it’s a complicated relationship.
Edit. X2: I bought flowers for my mom, and dropped them off. I only saw her for 45 mins! She was happy about that
Fiancé tried calling me multiple times, eventually texted. Said that he didn’t want me to spend all day with her because of how I get but he was so busy with work, we couldn’t have a full brown conversation about it, right then and there. He also said that I argued with myself today and was upset for no reason. He got me flowers too!
Netizens’ comments
- Info: why doesn’t he want you to go see your mom? Also, why haven’t you seen her in three weeks if she lives so close? Also, why doesn’t your fiancé come see your mom with you?
- It sounds like he feels like she’s going to hijack what is supposed to be a good day and make it suck. I’d side with him if he’s so good to you, he must have both of your best interests in mind, here.
- I kind of feel for your fiance. You had three weeks to visit her,but instead chose a holiday dedicated to partners. An implant is a low risk surgery, you can go with her to the hospital tomorrow, and be her designated driver. It does concern me that your fiance said no and not a let’s discuss this.
- Why did you wantt to make your fiancé look like he’s controlling when he only wants to protect you lol