My family was oppressive and strict and when I met my boyfriend, he helped me. He helped me realize I was being treated horribly and I left. They disowned me and I moved in with my boyfriend. It’s been 2 years. Things were good but it got weird.
He doesn’t want me to get a job but he gives me an allowance, but it’s not much. It’s $50 a month.
I like to paint and I can only afford some painting supplies because it’s expensive. I know I shouldn’t complain because it’s his money but I don’t have leftover money to buy anything else.
Sometimes he takes me shopping for clothes but he only buys me like one thing and that’s it.
He always goes out with his friends and doesn’t invite me anymore. He used to bring me along. Well, he invites them over sometimes. But I get bored and lonely at home when he goes without me
A few days ago, I went to see some old friends. I came home at 3 am because we were having fun and I didn’t want the night to end.
When I came, he was awake and angry at me because I left without washing the dishes and I came home late. I was confused why he was so mad I came home late and
I was also drinking so I spoke to him rudely without realizing my tone and he twisted my arm for being disrespectful
I’m bored. I paint or watch Netflix all day and when I told him that, he just asked if I want to have a baby. I’d want to get married before having children. And I don’t want a baby right now.
Sometimes our intimacy is bad and he doesn’t do the stuff I like anymore. We had a talk about it and he promised he would give me more attention but we did it today and he didn’t change at all. He had to go to work but still.
I feel like he doesn’t love me anymore. We don’t cuddle or have nice moments like we used to
He doesn’t like leftovers and wants fresh meals every single day