Wanted to check with the guys. Would you guys consider getting together with a girl who is in the flesh trade?
I admit I first met her in a session. However, I found myself falling head over heels for her.
Upon consulting some friends, I was strongly advised against doing so and that I would be a laughing stock among my peers.
What do everyone think?
Here are what netizens think:
- If you need to consult friends to decide, then it’s better you let her go. Clearly you look down on her job. The irony is, you are among those who patronised her service.
- No one needs to know your potential/possible future girlfriend’s business. If you don’t tell, who will judge? You should allow people around you to get to know her without any prejudice. It’s just a job to make money, who cares. If you aren’t open minded then better don’t waste her time.
- I once knew an 18 year old girl who worked in those sleazy KTVs. My friend brought her out for supper with us a few times so I asked her why did she choose this job? Her father passed, her mum is sick and her younger brother is in primary school. She herself was in poly and also the sole breadwinner. This paid her enough to support her family and continue her studies. So, what’s more important to you?
- I personally know of a close friend just like you. It was a little awkward at first but it didn’t take too long until I have acknowledged her as the one he loves. they truly are in love with one another. Well she had to feed her children from her previous marriage and she sometimes had to resort to be in the flesh trade to make ends meet. As a true friend, we will not judge who our friends choose to love as long as they are happy. I never laughed at my friend or belittle him.