Are you lucky enough to be with your first choice?
It’s human to want the perfect woman. I’ve met the perfect woman, I was even lucky enough to have her consider me. But I didn’t manage to secure her. She picked a guy who didn’t even have a degree or diploma. I try to understand why but I just couldn’t.
I hated that I’m not taller and richer although I know that wasn’t why she rejected me. I am smart though. How many people are able to acquire 3 degrees before the age of 30? I would assume most women would find me eligible given my talents academically wise and my projected income in years to come. I’m quite confident I can provide better for her than the other guy. But I have no choice but to move on.
Now I’m back in the dating scene. I just can’t find anyone who’s better than her. How do I proceed?
Here are what netizens think:
- Learn to be humble. Not everything in life is about academics and money. Some women look past these superficial things.
- Was tgt with bf (now husband), he was jobless so I paid for our dates n meal. Accepted him for who he is. Didn’t hiam him poor ugly. Now he landed a good paying job, and demand me to cook n clean for him. And when I wanted to do my hair he me beg for it ( past three years I been cutting my own hair). Made me realised that not really worth it to look past superficial sometimes. Cause when they are successful alr, they will forget about yr sacrifices.
- She fell for the reality.. not ur potential.
- Lots about your academics and projected income, nothing about the rest of you. What’s your personality like? Do you generally get along well with people? Are you enjoyable to hang around? It’s not rocket science. Even if someone is rich (and you’re not rich yet), who wants to spend their free time around that person – even just as friends – if they’re boring or annoying? Lagi attraction you add in factors like looks, potential red flags, etc.