Apparently I don’t attract women, I’m a 30yo with an extremely small girlfriend list and currently single (since 2020).
I’m far from being the most handsome guy on earth, but I’m not ugly and in fact I do think that I’m relatively good looking.
Always tried my best to be polite and respectful to everyone. I’m not rich, but I have a good job and can provide for myself just fine.
I also consider myself quite versatile as I have interest in pretty much every area of knowledge. I can talk about pretty much anything from culture, economy, science…
I workout five days a week to keep healthy, maintain good hygiene and even started a skin care routine to improve my facial features.
And still, I can’t get a girlfriend.
I know I don’t need a girlfriend to be happy, and I do consider myself happy already. But a girlfriend to hangout together and have fun together in bed would be quite good.
They don’t need a man to be happy either, but keep complaining about the lack of good men. And then there are men like me single.
Again, not claiming to be the Giga Chad of Legend, but I don’t think anyone would classify me as a shit man either.
It just seems to me women these days have such high standards that normal guys like me have no chance with most of them.
Netizens’ comments
- Trust me man I get it. Best advice i can give you is to keep taking yourself like you are already doing. Work hard like you are already doing. And try to socialize. Go to a bar and have a soda. And baby sit it. Look for conversation and just get yourself out there.
- You’re doing everything right in terms of self-care, but make sure you’re also putting that same amount of effort into actually going out and socializing with women. You could be the biggest chad of all time but if you’re not consistently spending your time around women as much as possible, you won’t get as many opportunities as someone who is.
- Could be bad luck. Could be you’re not really being objective about yourself. Maybe you check the boxes but lack overall charisma. Who knows. If you’re truly happy, them keep working on improving yourself and a mate will come.