I know I will get flamed for this but I’m going to say it anyway. For those who say they can’t find a mate. Women are gold diggers, men only want young and pretty women etc.
Everytime you point a finger at someone, your own 3 fingers are pointing back at you.
For those who have ego and pride and use anger to hide their embarrassment for being rejected. Come on. You can choose people, then people cannot choose you? Love is not a charity event. Turn the tables around, would you give a person that you deem low quality a chance if you have absolutely no feelings for him/her?
If you have sufficient quality and assets, of course you will not blindly start a relationship with the first moving object that shows interest in you. Of course you would like to be with someone that you are equally attracted to. But do you attract that said person or you’re not as great as you think you are?
Its very easy to blame others when something goes wrong in your life. But you learn nothing if you walk away without self reflection.
I have friends and role models around me who have coupled up since school days and have got married. Some did better than others. Some lived simpler lives. I know I’m fortunate to have positive influences in my life so I have learnt a lot from them. There’s actually no secret formula to start a relationship but are you willing to face the truth about what you really are? Only when you truly know what you bring to the table then you can be realistic about what kind of a partner you can possibly find.
Why would you want to be with someone who wants out? Why would you want a shallow man or woman to be your special someone? You have to ask yourself why are you demanding love from someone who isn’t interested? If you think long and hard enough, it’s not about love but there’s a chance that you think you deserve this person like a trophy and sometimes people can see your intents better than you.