Dating, especially first dates are so hard nowadays.
Everyone is bringing their own set of beliefs, ideas, expectations and checklists to the dating table instead of just chilling, vibing and enjoying the other individual’s company.
Like the last girl, I went on a first date with.
All she could talk about is money, ambitions and what a guy is to do for her. I gave her time to warm up thinking she might be anxious but in vain. I just couldn’t vibe with her even though she was very attractive.
An indifferent attitude about not wanting to really know about the other individual and couldn’t take it easy. It was a bloody turn off. I had to leave.
I reckon beauty is getting so common nowadays that it didn’t matter when the vibe is not right.
What happen to having fun and going with the flow during dates?
Here are what netizens think:
- Ask what she can do for you then. Is fair game at this point. Then you will realise other than S many of these women don’t bring anything else positive to your life. Just enjoy watching her stutter and stumble.
- I think it also depends on where you met this person. Through dating app? Through friends? Through common interests? Through other means? Not trying to stereotype but where and how you met the person may give you a clue how to adjust your expectations.
- If you want to meet a more giving person, what are your odds on a dating app? Not saying its zero but it’s quite common to meet someone who’s already tired of the game and is laying all her cards out to not waste her time. I think it’s a blessing she is showing her true self. No disguise, you saved your time.
- Personally I wouldn’t be interested in a male version of the person you’ve met either. But this is how it is. Some people are tired lol.
- Loool it’s sooooo common to hear em talk about money, ambitions etc..etc.. keep trying to find the next one, the odds are kinda like weekly 1st prize 4D, doable, just rare. And don’t get me started on toto