At a certain age, you need to grow up.
You know how society dictates that at a certain age, you need to achieve certain things? Like for example by 22+ you should have finish study, at 25+ you need to get married, at 30+ you need to buy a house, etc
(I know it’s not accurate but yeah you know what I mean).
Well, I don’t believe in achieving things like that on certain age. Just take your time.
However, I believe that everyone should be emotionally and mentally mature by at least 25 years old. All those immature mentality you have since school time should be gone by then. All those drama you purposely get yourself involved, you should leave it at once by then.
25 years old is a good time to start thinking about the future, and only take things and do things that matters to you.
I don’t care enough if you buy a car, a house, get married, finish your study by 35+. But if by 35+ you still have the mentality of a 15-20 year old, then to me you’re a sore loser that will not get anywhere in life
Worse when you have kids and then they need to tolerate an “adult” who just doesn’t grow up at all.
If you reach the age of 60+ or more and still view life the same way as when you were 20+, then I’ll tell you this, aside from physical age, you just didn’t grow up at all and you wasted your life.
Here are what netizens think:
- Yeap and actually for most men we only peak in our lives after we reach 35-40 years old that is when a man’s life starts. Until then most of us have to go through so much shit. Unstable no money no house can’t support yourself etc.etc.. But for girls it is different from 18 to 30 is their peak years they club party fk around enjoy their lives then once 30 plus find a nice stable guy to settle down but that is when the guys life starts to peak at 35 plus. So best to stay single and wait for good opportunities in the future.
- Everyone is different. U cant expect all guys to have the same mentallity or as same as women. Some women prefer men who have both mature n a bit of childishness. And all love a different life, its just individual personal preference. Not nice to call them a sore loser also, even if u live a better life. If u want respect, dont look down on people
- N when ur 60 n still so judgmental about others. N how they live their life , I think u just wasted ur life bothering about others when nobody cares