I 27F have been with Eric 32M since we were young. We currently live together.
For the most part, we’re active in bed and we have PIV almost every day. The problem is that he’s not able to come or stay hard during intercourse unless it’s the back door.
The back door is extremely painful and I’ve gotten a UTI once before because of it and at that point I said no more of this.
It’s been 4 years since then and everything was normal. It was until he complained that he wasn’t able to finish since the start of our relationship, and I was getting too loose too fast.
He got mad and told me how fed up he was. He said it was like going in the hallway. I’ve tried everything possible to try to fix it. I’ve tried kegels, tightening creams, even made an appointment to the doctor.
He has continued to pressure me into going the other way and at one point did it backdoor until it hurt. I had to scream at him to stop. He told me to get tighter so he wouldn’t have to go the other way.
A week later I’m showing symptoms reminiscent to the last UTI I had. Now I have to see a doctor. I’m both sad and pissed.
Is there any way to fix this so he doesn’t do this anymore?
- Yeah I don’t get what she’s trying to fix…OP did you want to sew yourself up down there? Solder it closed? Tf… get rid of the “man” and I use that term VERY loosely (ironic isn’t it) and get yourself checked by the doctor and into therapy.
- You fix it by leaving. He doesn’t see you as a person, not fully. Not if he can disregard anatomy and tell you to make yourself tighter.
- This has to stop. He needs to fix himself, it’s not your job to figure out how to fix this. Get out. You’re wasting your time and causing yourself misery. There are too many people on planet earth you could be with to waste another second with this one.