I need to rant about my looks
First of all to those people who keep talking about pretty privileges, I DO NOT DENY IT EXISTS. But we have it tough as well. I’m 24M, already some years over my NS days. But my skin is those where it never gets tan at all. So even until now, my skin is clean and white AF. Not only that, I do know that I look better than average although I don’t think I look good looking enough to be considered “Handsome”.
Speaking chinese often, people around me tend to call me “清秀” and “俊美” which I am not sure whether it is to be a compliment. They often mistake me as a Taiwanese/Korean. But I am starting to feel my looks are a hinderance to my relationship life. For F sake, I got rejected by girls which only to be told by their friends that “she thinks you’re a player, but your looks rlly honestly give the F-boi vibes”.
什么 the F? I can control how I look meh? I tried tanning my skin and it doesn’t work at all. I cannot grow a beard, nor a mustache fits my face shape. I’m done bro, when guys ugly people call us “simp, desperate”. When guys look better, people call us “F-boi, player”. What is it u girls want??? WALAO. But anyways thanks for allowing me to rant here
Here are what netizens think:
- Its not just ugly and good looking spectrum. Have you not seen a Venn Diagram in your science class? Girls are looking for square/nerdy but delicious looking boy scouts. You are probably the delicious looking pervert in their spectrum. Thats better than pervy boy scouts I guess.
- Maybe it’s the 氣質 instead, 相由心生 afterall. Take some time to reflect, are u really the playboy like they describe? And yes, as full grown adults, we do have a certain degree of control over our looks indeed. Not 100% of coz, but not zero either.
- Bro. White is enough la. White af is like god tier white or what? Lol. Just say, dont judge u by the looks. If still they dont want to know you then gd luck and wait another 5 yrs hope your facial structure change by then. Just joking la
- They say it’s the inner that brings out the outer. Once you can find the inner peace, with yourself, that’s when people can accept your outer appearance.
- I mean you can be good looking and all but have a tiko expression? One’s demeanor is very important too haha