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MAN SAYS HIS GF’S EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE IS WORSE THAN A CHILD

My gf’s temper is stressing me out.

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We have been together for a year. Mostly our relationship’s a good one and we are happy. She is in general an independent person but almost paradoxically at the same time is very obsessed over me. She tells me almost everyday how happy I make her.

Roughly once every two months so far she will get unusually angry over something small like maybe a text message from me to her where the tone can be misinterpreted as being not nice. She will get so unbelievably angry that she will write me walls of angry text, then tell me she is breaking up with me, then block me so I cannot reply. Occasionally she will unblock to write angry messages to me again then block me again. About a week later she will call to apologize. I will talk to her about not doing the same again and we get back together. Cycle repeats.

It is particularly stressful for me because when she says she is breaking up with me and block me, each time I have no idea if it is for real. And each time I believe the same will not happen again because we take the time to talk about each incident in detail after it happens. I have no reason to suspect any trigger because besides these occasional events, the relationship is going well.

What can I do?

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And the next time she blocks me and I have a panic attack, should I attempt to reach out to her?

Here are what netizens think:

  • Sharing from the other side of the story. I was very emotional before I settle down with my husband and marriage. At first, I don’t even know I have emotion problem. Those reactions from me is been with me all these while and it’s normal to me. I don’t find anything wrong. Then the next stage I sort of know that I’m too emotional sometimes, but I can’t control it. Knowing that I shouldn’t think this way, knowing that I shouldn’t react like this to a small issue, knowing that the trigger is not even worth the emotion, and the other person doesn’t meant this way, but I will still feel very emotional and react in all the negative ways. Then now at where am I, I am able to recognize when something triggers me, not only I can control it much better, I can also tell my partner that I’m emo-ing now and ask him to leave me alone for a while. And he knows how to deal with my issue better than myself. So my point is if this girl is someone you love deeply and worth fighting for, then don’t just run, try to communicate and understand. She felt sorry afterwards so probably she didn’t meant it too, might be just something she can’t control as of now. It will take a lot of time and effort and patient if you want to make it work. My husband admitted to me before that the initial phase was so tiring for him. But at where we are now, everything is worth it. Nobody is perfect. So if you can’t find the perfect girl, just need a girl that’s worth working together and improve together.
  • Seriously bro, have some self respect. No good person in this world deserves such treatment.
  • Run as far as you can
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