Im afraid to have kids with my wife because shes overweight
Ive been with my wife for 4 years. In that time she has gained 22kg.
Now dont get me wrong, I dont need my wife to be some super skinny super model body. But I do feel the weight gain (which has not stopped) has gotten out of hand. She went from having an average body type to pushing well into the realm of obesity.
Ive tried for a couple years now to get over, because I do love her. But Im 15cm taller than her, stocky, and a little flabby and theres still only 10 pounds between us.
Its made me hyper aware of her (maybe) related behaviors. She sleeps ALOT. She started snoring in that time. Low effort in bed. Her eating habits always mess up my mood. Its also “this and that” for every meal. A burrito AND a large nacho. An ice cream sandwhich AND a extra scoop of ice cream. A combo box and extra fries.
Its made me really hesitant to have kids with her because I know there no going back after that.
And of course, it feels impossible to gracefully broach this topic with her. Because it makes me feel like a superficial a-hole. But I really dont think I can live like this.