Worried about false allegations of rape or molestation in my marriage
I am married to my wife but I am terrified of having any form of physical contact with her including merely touching her private parts.
Because I am very worried that she will accuse me of rape or molestation. I don’t see much action against false molestation or rape allegations and this really worries me in this marriage.
I don’t beat my wife, I take care of her and treat her well. I have my own career and I pay a big chunk of her expenses.
Divorce is not an option because she has threatened to fight for maintenance. Many can argue that she might not get it but if she gets anything, I will be caught in a bottomless pit. If it were to be you, will you dare to take the risk? What if you miss your target?
I’m feeling very depressed now. I feel that there is no way out.
Here are what netizens think:
- Deprivation of S is a legally defined fact to show irretrievable breakdown in a marriage. Just don’t make the mistake of having an affair. Use your right hand if necessary. Btw, you didn’t explain how you and why you have a fear of being accused of marital rape.
- Time to speak with a divorce lawyer and understand the local law about it.
- School holidays is up n can we check ur age pls? Else u know how marraige works as husband n wife? U 2 need a consent form not?
- Need to hear from your wife to get a better picture why you fear her. When will she be posting?