MAN SHY UNTIL JIALAT, TURNING 30 BUT NEVER TALKED TO WOMEN BEFORE, ONLY HIS MUM

I am a guy in my late 20s who has never really had a conversation with a woman

I am in my late 20s and I have no real experience being around women. I am straight FYI. I never really talked with girls in school.

I am a shy person and throughout my life to the current day I have no experience talking or being around women in any real capacity aside from my mom.

I interact with women at work and but I have never talked with a woman my age outside of the traditional work or school environment.

I have never been to prom, flirted with a girl, or have had any “normal” conversations with a woman. Women are pretty foreign to me and I don’t know how to talk to them on anything really.

Whether those “things” are something like abortion or a hobby. I am never really around women outside of work. I have occasional conversation with a woman like 15 years older than me but that is it.

I have never, for example, talked with a woman in her mid 20s. Considering I am getting older women just become more and more foreign to me.

I was thinking of trying dancing to be around more people, especially women. What do you think? Women are just so foreign to me.

Women just kinda scare me. The only time a woman ever reached out to me was a girl in school feigning interest in me and dared by her friends. I still carry the social scars of school where I was looked down on by everyone.

Netizens’ comments

1. First. Don’t bring up abortion in your first hundred conversations with women.
2. “Hey nice weather we are having, how do you feel about abortion” OP I would say maybe look up some normal conversations starters something along those lines
3. stop viewing women as another species. you’re just alienating yourself. you have no reason to be afraid of women, you’re only holding yourself back by giving into your fear. start by just talking to ur co-workers or something. or go out with friends who have girlfriends. most women talk about the exact same things guys talk about, just with more giggles. the more you treat women like you’d treat any of your guy friends, the more they’ll like you. they don’t want to feel objectified. most of all, be interested in them. just ask a ton of questions. or just find urself a gay guy you can tag along with.