A netizen shared how he cannot stand his girlfriend treating him like a “free grabfood rider” and making him do “stupid” things for her.
Here is the story
I’m 38M and am dating a 36F. I was very attracted to her initially. I thought she was a fun person to be with and she knows how to turn me on. We met through friends who introduced us. She knows how to dress to make me sweat and shows off her best assets so I can overlook some of her flaws. She’s on the meaty side and I’m fine with that. I’m in the normal weight range and don’t mind being with a larger woman.
The thing I cannot stand about her is her constant need to make me do stupid things for her. Like she would ask me to buy things for her late at night. If she’s craving water with lemon slices, she would ask me go 24 hour supermarket and get some lemons and if I don’t do it, it means I don’t love her?
Or she would ask me to go 7-11 and get comfort snacks for her late at night.
I stay around 30 mins bicycle ride away from her. Both ways will take me more than 1 hour, on top of looking for the items that she want. If I refuse she would argue with me, withhold having sex with me and accuse me of not loving her.
Nowadays so easy to order things online, I offered to order for her but she told me she will only feel loved if I personally deliver it. Sometimes I think she is treating me like a free grab food rider.
I also start to find that she is quite selfish when it comes to getting intimate. If that day she is unable to climax, she also won’t bother to let me have a happy ending. Sometimes I try very hard and long but she’s heavy and some postures is not easy to maintain so she will get frustrated with me and stop. I thought women don’t need to come everytime? Sometimes I wish I am with a lighter woman.
I feel like breaking up with her because I’m starting to get tired of her stupid requests and I start to think we are not compatible in bed. Talking is useless.
The moment I mention it, she will accuse me of cheating. I don’t want our mutual friends to feel awkward when I break up with her so I am just waiting for the right time to do it.
How do I break up with her in the nicest way possible? I have a feeling she will badmouth me and say I’m cheating on her even when I didn’t.