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MAN SICK OF OLDER GENERATION TELLING HIM ABOUT “LAST TIME” & TOLD TO BE GRATEFUL

Elder generation

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I hate my parents and generally anyone who is born in the 70s and below.

I grew up with 4 siblings and for some reason my parents thinks it’s ok for the older kids to care for the younger ones. And the hell doesn’t end there, all the never ending pleasing and everything is never good enough for them . Expecially growing up and being punished. Ask to explain why we did this, reply : say we are talking back , dont reply : say we are guilty and dont know how to talk, ask what they want us to reply: punishment x2 . Either way we are getting whack .

Every elder thinks that we have no place to talk just because they eaten more “salt” then us or how we are the blessed generations what is there to complain, mental illness is a fake thing etc etc. Now as a full grown adult having my own home my own family and sadly had to make the choice of letting my parents stay with us for a short period of time . My life turned into a living hell, feels like being a teenager again . If I work late, I will get cute messages saying working late again must be nice not going home early . If I drink I will get remarks like how it’s unlady like to drink without your husband or to drink because you’re a mom now . If I work on weekends or go out on weekends I get interrogated and get replies like must be nice not caring about spending time with your family. When in fact I dont want to work and I only meet my friend probably once every couple if months.

If I dont clean up immediately because honestly we all have a hard day at work and sometimes I just want 10mins mindlessly scrolling through FB or something I get very cute messages asking us to clean up as we dont have a maid at home when in fact I do 90% of the cleaning and cooking in the house .

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Yes she does help out because she can’t stand the meaning of cleaning it later everything needs to be clean now this instant .

On the brim of packing my bags and leaving my own home or sometimes all I want to do is just let something bad happen to me and I have to be hospitalized, but I love my children too much to do it..

Honestly old people , take a break and stop trying to tell me how last time we can’t get away with this, how if I did this last time my father will throw me out of the house , how I’m lucky because I get to study , how him lucky because I dont have to go through war. Blah blah blah . Each generation have our own problem stop belittling it just because you are not going through it.

So do me a favor SHUT IT!!! IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY JUST DONT SAY IT .

Thanks for listening to me rant .

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