How do I attract nerdy girls?
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I used to be a fat nerd so I had a thing for them growing up. I lost weight, hit the gym but I have an issue in the relationship department.
Problem is I keep attracting those ONS, bar-hopper, influencer wannabe types in Uni and in the office but I really just want a nerdy girl I can cuddle with and read funny Harry Potter fanfics with.
I’ve tried asking them out but they just look intimidated by me. How do I attract nerdy girls?
Thanks
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Netizens’ comments
- Expose manly manhood, impress target female. Target female impressed, standby changi imprisonment
- talk to them like human being
- I mean, maybe the areas u go to don’t have what you want. Maybe hop on valorant or something instead of going to clubs.
- Start by putting on weight again
- Are you for real ? I’m the total opposite maybe we can exchange pointers haha
Maybe it’s where you hang out or the way you portray yourself ?
I realised also it’s also who you are seen with. If you are seen with party girls and influencer wannabes you will be associated with that. It’s hard to shake off. I’m the total opposite so only know nerdy girls - Time to eat medicine
- Well for starters you can bring up common topics and get the ball rolling. Put yourself in their shoes, I doubt you would go out with a guy that you hardly know anything about lol
- Just be yourself and your time will come. Don’t try to force anything. The right person might come to you or you might run into them when you least expect it.
- So what dating apps have you tried or are trying at the moment?
- Find out what topics they are interested in and talk to them about that topic and be more expert than them
- If you need to ask for help then you are not ready / dont deserve them yet. No amount of advice will help when it comes to this sort of things. Everyone gets girls in different ways. You need to figure out whats your own way to do it